My latest piece is called Sex work – society’s transactional blind spot. [paywall]
In the article I explore the transactional nature of human relationships and how we are encouraged to bargain with others, from a very young age, for social and emotional survival. I have focused on sex work because it is a significant cultural issue that polarises opinion and inspires much clichéd and harmful representation in art and media.
Sex workers also report poor experiences in therapy and within the mental health system as a whole.
The opinions and experience of those who actually do it are often ignored or marginalised
Even if you cannot imagine doing sex work yourself, or think you don’t know anyone who does it, it’s worth reflecting on it as an issue of labour rights, self-determination and consent.
Political support for change
Just after the piece was published, the UK Home Affairs Select Committee declared in a report that there was a very strong case for decriminalisation. Amnesty International reached a similar conclusion in 2015 which has now become policy. This move has also been supported by the Lancet.
If you are affected by any of the issues here and would like to explore them further in therapy, please get in touch.